Relationships – Where Are They Now?

Dane

I never met Dane’s girlfriend and I’ve always tried to give the benefit of the doubt and not get judgee too early (least not till I’ve met them).  Here’s an email I got one time from her (is her name). 

----- Original Message -----

From: Drew

To:

Sent: Saturday, August 22, 2009 2:46 PM

Subject: did this work?

J

DCal

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Dane just sent you an email and I just got home.. He is not a tech person like we are. Half of the time he doesn't carry his phone or check it and 99% of the time he doesn't check email. While I am glued to my phone and computer. This is the first time he has opened his email in months. He says that when he came over to your house he took the trash out every wednesday, chased after the dog that was unleashed to get a stool sample for the vet, moved furniture, etc. I don't care if he comes over there and watches a movie, etc., but it's really hard for him to do household chores, etc. especially before work.

He was hospitalized a few weekends ago for having a very very high sugar level (800+, normal is under 150) and very low sodium level. He was extremely dehydrated and they gave him numerous bags of IV fluids. He was in the VA all weekend and finally allowed to go home on a Sunday. He is now insulin dependent (shots) and on a different blood pressure medicine. He is also on a CPAP machine for sleep apnea. He's doing ok, but I just don't want him to overdo it.

The one car that we have, the engine overheated and we weren't able to save it in time. We had to get the engine replaced. My piece of crap car that I drive has had multiple problems too. We are usually down to only one car on the weekends. I work weekends and Thursdays delivering pizzas for pizza hut. I go to school on Mondays and Wednesdays. So he doesn't have a car on Saturday and Sunday most of the time and Fridays we have been going to the VA. Hopefully we can stop by and see you sometime soon.

-(Name Deleted

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My annotated reply to her.  Tried to remove as much duplication as I could.  No reply from her on this either.

I hope we can overcome these misunderstandings.  I always have looked after Dane’s well-being. 

Hope to see you both soon.  J

DrDOS/DCal

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From: [mailto:]
Sent: Saturday, August 22, 2009 6:39 PM
To: Drew
Subject: Re: did this work?

He says that when he came over to your house he took the trash out every wednesday, He rolled the can up to the house so wife could fill it.  That was Tuesdays.

chased after the dog that was unleashed to get a stool sample for the vet, Couldn’t have been more than once.  I don’t think he had to chase either.

moved furniture, etc. What furniture?

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-Name Deleted

 

When I finally saw Dane later that month he said that was just her.  Huh?  I suggested he should set her straight.  It’s almost a year and haven’t seen either of them.